Most of us have someone we regard as “our” doctor, i.e. a trusted GP with whom we feel a permanent connection, even if we only see them occasionally. This relationship provides reassurance that, should a health issue arise, we have a familiar professional to turn to; someone who understands our medical history and personal circumstances.

Solicitors, however, are different. For many people, consulting a lawyer is an infrequent or even non-existent experience. Unlike routine medical check-ups, legal matters often arise only at key life moments, such as buying a house, drafting a will, or going through a divorce. These are significant, sometimes stressful, events that require expert guidance, although they are typically one-off engagements, rather than regular consultations.

The role of a solicitor in life’s key events

Solicitors tend to be occasional visitors to our lives. Some individuals may use a solicitor only once - such as to handle a property transaction, for instance - and never require legal services again. Others might turn to different solicitors for different needs: perhaps a specific firm for conveyancing, another for family law matters, and one more for business affairs. Unlike medical professionals, there is no need to be formally registered with a particular law firm to access legal assistance when it’s needed.

That said, many solicitors develop long-term relationships with their clients. They may assist the same families across generations, becoming trusted advisers to parents, children, and even grandchildren. Some clients, once they have found a solicitor they trust, prefer to return to them for all future legal matters. This leads to an informal but powerful relationship being built over time, providing both continuity and a deeper understanding of the client’s unique situation.

What are the advantages of having a family solicitor?

Having a solicitor who is familiar with your circumstances can be invaluable. Consider the process of making a will, for example. If your solicitor already knows your family structure, financial position and business interests, the process suddenly becomes much smoother. 

The same applies when urgent legal matters arise. If a client suffers a sudden illness and needs a power of attorney put in place quickly, having an established relationship with a solicitor can save crucial time. Similarly, in criminal matters, an individual facing accusations may find immediate support and representation far easier to secure if they already have a solicitor they trust.

A family solicitor plays a particularly significant role when dealing with sensitive issues. A solicitor who has previously advised a client on personal matters may be the first person they turn to when facing a major life crisis. For example, a solicitor who helped a client purchase their first home might later be consulted during a difficult separation or divorce. Just because the solicitor did not attend the wedding doesn’t mean they won’t be the first port of call when legal advice is needed on the marriage’s dissolution!

Beyond individual clients, trusted solicitors often receive referrals within families. Parents who’ve relied on a certain solicitor for their own legal needs frequently recommend the same professional to their children. When a grown-up child buys their first flat, they might be encouraged to use the family solicitor, if they’re known for their reliability and expertise. This continuity demonstrates trust and can make the legal process smoother, benefiting both solicitor and client.

The importance of a trusted legal adviser

Life is unpredictable. Just as we rely on medical professionals for unexpected health issues, having a solicitor on hand provides peace of mind in times of legal uncertainty. The Law Society of Scotland’s motto, “trusted adviser of choice,” highlights the value of having a go-to legal professional who understands your background and can act swiftly when needed.

There are many scenarios where an established legal relationship can make a difference. Should you unexpectedly be called to a police station, having a known solicitor who can respond immediately is invaluable. Likewise, if you suddenly require an urgent notarial certificate for international matters, having a solicitor already familiar with your situation simplifies the process. In moments of crisis or significant change, avoiding the need to start from scratch with an unfamiliar legal professional can be a great relief.

The role of family law solicitors

One particular area where a strong solicitor-client relationship is crucial is in family law. When relationships break down, emotions run high - and navigating legal rights and obligations can be overwhelming. Solicitors specialising in family law can provide vital support to individuals going through separations, divorces or disputes involving children. These legal professionals offer expert guidance on financial settlements, custody arrangements and other sensitive issues, ensuring clients receive fair treatment and proper legal protection.

A family law solicitor is more than just a legal expert; they are a source of reassurance during one of life’s most challenging times. Whether through mediation, negotiation, or court representation, they work to achieve the best possible outcomes for their clients, while providing empathy and understanding.

While solicitors may not always be part of our daily lives, their role in key life moments is invaluable. Whether buying a home, drafting a will, handling an emergency, or going through a family dispute, having a trusted solicitor can make all the difference. If you do not yet have a solicitor you can turn to in times of need, it may be worth considering finding one before a crisis arises. After all, developing that relationship early can provide security, peace of mind, and a trusted source of guidance for years to come.